In today’s fast-paced world, many professionals find themselves juggling multiple careers, often leading to stress and burnout. As the CDO of a legal tech company and the CTO of a cyber tech firm, I understand the challenges of managing two demanding roles while striving to maintain a fulfilling personal life. Fortunately, the ancient philosophies of…

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Balancing Dual Careers: The Wisdom of Buddhism and Stoicism

In today’s fast-paced world, many professionals find themselves juggling multiple careers, often leading to stress and burnout. As the CDO of a legal tech company and the CTO of a cyber tech firm, I understand the challenges of managing two demanding roles while striving to maintain a fulfilling personal life. Fortunately, the ancient philosophies of Buddhism and Stoicism offer valuable insights that can help us navigate this complex journey.

The Challenge of Dual Careers

Managing two careers requires exceptional time management, focus, and resilience. The pressure can be overwhelming, leading to a sense of imbalance. As responsibilities adds up, it becomes crucial to find strategies that not only enhance productivity but also preserve personal well-being.

In my case, I have to focus on different topics, putting an AI based software into production on one hand and managing the launch of a new legal app on the other.

Embracing Mindfulness: Lessons from Buddhism

Buddhism teaches the importance of mindfulness—the practice of being present in the moment. This principle can be particularly beneficial for those balancing multiple roles. Here’s how mindfulness can help:

1. Focus on the Present

When juggling tasks from two careers, it’s easy to become distracted by worries about the future or regrets about the past. Mindfulness encourages us to concentrate on the present moment, allowing for greater clarity and effectiveness in our work. By dedicating specific times to each role without distraction, we can enhance our productivity and reduce stress. Indeed, I cannot bring the stress on one project to the other. What is positive though is to bring the experience from one project to the other.

2. Cultivating Compassion

Buddhism emphasizes compassion, not only towards others but also towards ourselves. Acknowledging our limits and practicing self-compassion can alleviate feelings of guilt or inadequacy that arise when we struggle to meet demands. By treating ourselves with kindness, we create a more supportive internal environment that fosters resilience. This does not mean one should find excuses not achieving its goals but setting realistic limits. This is hard sometimes especially when project deadlines are aligning. one would be tempted to work harder longer. Harder is ok but longer will burn one’s ability to focus and be efficient at the same time.

3. Meditation as a Tool for Balance

Incorporating meditation into our daily routine can provide a refuge from the chaos of dual careers. Even short sessions of mindfulness meditation can help clear mental clutter, improve focus, and enhance emotional regulation. This practice allows us to recharge and approach our responsibilities with renewed energy.

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The Stoic Approach: Embracing Control

Stoicism offers practical wisdom for managing external pressures and maintaining inner peace. Here are key Stoic principles that resonate with the challenge of dual careers:

1. Distinguishing Between What We Can Control and What We Cannot

One of the core tenets of Stoicism is recognizing what is within our control—our thoughts, actions, and responses—and what is not—external events and others’ opinions. By focusing on our own actions and letting go of concerns about outcomes beyond our control, we can reduce anxiety and maintain a sense of agency in both careers. In tech we are accustomed to control our environment, this not the case when facing humans, either people working in our team or stakeholders. One can control its speech, be respectful and mindful in the choice of its words by putting itself in its audience shoes.

2. Practicing Negative Visualization

Stoics advocate for negative visualization—contemplating potential challenges or setbacks to prepare mentally for adversity. This practice helps us cultivate resilience by reducing fear of failure and enabling us to face challenges with equanimity. It is impossible to predict everything but you know the quote: be prepared for the worst so you can enjoy the best.

3. Embracing Impermanence

Both Buddhism and Stoicism teach that change is an inherent part of life. Embracing impermanence allows us to accept that our current situation—whether it’s the demands of two careers or personal commitments—will evolve over time. This perspective fosters adaptability and encourages us to prioritise what truly matters. In a fast changing field, it is particularly important to tackle this knowledge in order not to feel overwhelmed and keep it cool. This allows to take a step back to make more advised and sharp decisions.

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Finding Personal Time

Amidst the demand of dual careers, carving out personal time is essential for mental health and overall well-being. Here are practical strategies inspired by Buddhist and Stoic philosophies:

  • Set Boundaries: Clearly define work hours for each role and stick to them. Communicate these boundaries to colleagues to foster respect for your personal time. Making time in your calendar for personal time too. Having meetings with yourself is very important.
  • Prioritize Self-Care: Schedule regular breaks for physical activity, hobbies, or relaxation techniques like yoga or meditation. These practices recharge your energy and enhance focus. They can be a good way to make a break between your two jobs, cleaning the mind from one to jump in the other refreshed.
  • Reflect Regularly: Take time each week to reflect on your priorities and assess how well you’re balancing your commitments. Adjust your schedule as needed to align with your values.

Conclusion

Managing two careers can be challenging, but by integrating the wisdom of Buddhism and Stoicism into our daily lives, we can cultivate mindfulness, resilience, and balance. These philosophies remind us that while we may not control every aspect of our professional lives, we can choose how we respond to challenges and prioritise self-care.As you navigate your own journey through dual careers, consider embracing these timeless teachings to find harmony between work and personal life—ultimately leading to greater fulfilment in both realms. 

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